Sunday, May 9, 2010

YES. i do love PRAISES!

mikhal u r absolutely incredibly talented and im SO SO HAPPY that ur in the team. thank u SO much for ur work!!! u did an awesome job!!


im SO SO SO FLATTERED to hear that..

yeah. i do love praises. i mean, who dont?? though sometimes people act as if they don't want to be praised, or as if those praises don't suit them. i feel happy. feel the acceptance. the appreciation. but then, is it just about receiving praises?? how about to make people happy, to accept and appreciate other people??

let's turn our prespective.

i found myself RARELY give praises.
doesn't mean that i scold people or gossiping and tell bad things about them. not really. i just don't really bother about it. even when i feel someone had done a well, i realize, i prefer praise them behind their back, talking about it with other friends.

is it regarding to east culture issue? typical east people, asian, indonesian, chinese are more focusing to negative things.. when they made mistakes, they can be scolded like crazy, while when they achieve somethin, people just say "ohh.." why cant we praise when we know it makes other happy? why cant i? i think we just need to get used to it.

now let's train ourselves to PRAISE.
simple thing can make a big difference :)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

ya, orang kita jarang muji.. ;
tapi senang dipuji juga ada kelemahannya lho...

gbs

Unknown said...

Yay! yup, praising others help in turn to feel better too.